The 90-year-old woman was treated for serious injuries in hospital after the early morning attack that police say has left her traumatised.
Police were told a man broke into an aged-care home at Bateau Bay on the NSW Central Coast about 12.40am on Wednesday before attacking the woman.
A 34-year-old man was arrested at a home in Caves Beach, near Lake Macquarie, on Monday night and charged with a string of serious crimes, including committing a serious indictable offence using violence.
The man ran out the back door of the property and jumped a fence before he was caught, police said.
He was taken to hospital to treat minor injuries to his arm.
He was later refused bail and will appear at Belmont Local Court on Tuesday.
Sex Crimes Squad commander Jayne Doherty said the community would understandably be "in uproar" over the attack on a vulnerable, elderly woman.
"It is horrendous that someone, any person in the safety of their home would be attacked like this, but to attack a very defenceless old lady is beyond belief," she said.
Detective Superintendent Doherty said the assault appeared to have been an opportunistic attack.
"So far we haven't been able to find any connection between this male, the aged-care facility and the woman prior to the ... offence," she said.
The woman was very traumatised after the incident and was being looked after by her family and medical staff as she recovered from severe wounds to her arms, Det Supt Doherty said.
"As you can understand, being elderly, her skin has torn significantly where pressure was applied," she said.
Extra security had been hired at the aged-care home to ensure residents felt safe, but police said they had no ongoing safety concerns.
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